Don't lie to people anymore. There's a good marketing plan.
The CAF is about being able to destroy our nation's enemies. We are the 'in case of a threat to national survival, break glass' people.
The more we spin the BS about 'family, career, balanced lifestyle' and all that jazz, the more people will smell a rat and disturst us.
Especially the newer generations who connect most strongly with authenticity.
Tell them it's hard, lonely and dangerous, and that you won't get much of a choice about what you have to do sometimes. It's hard on families too, and we need to be clear why.
Also tell them it's exciting, you will be in continual learning and upgrading mode, and you will be part of a huge family filled with the finest people you will ever meet and will be friends with some of them for life.
Compared to civvy life, tell them the pay, benefits and living conditions aren't great, depending on the job you do or where you work or live, or how much you p*ss away on smoke, drink or gambling.
Also tell them that you won't care much about that when the waves are breaking over the bridge, the bullets are flying, or the slipstream whacks you in the face as you exit the starboard door of a Herc doing 120knts, at night.
The more we lie, or tell them what we think they want to hear, the less they'll believe us and the more our brand suffers.
My tuppence worth...