ontheedge said:
1. The specialty professional trade I'm considering doesn't have any openings and probably won't for a few years. But I wanna start the process now. So do I enrol and apply for another job (say, infantry officer) and get the gears rolling, so if something opens up in my specialty, I'm ready and fully trained?
It's really best to join the occupation you want to do. There is an administrative process to change trades (Voluntary Occupational Transfer); but VOT's are not guaranteed, they require a great amount of paperwork, chain of command approval, plus a slew of other requirements. Yes people VOT (I am one of them), but it is not an easy process (my VOT took just over a year and had full Chain of Command support).
ontheedge said:
2. For the BMQ and BMOQ - is there a way to get details of the curriculum, what is covered on day to day basis, for weekend and summer offerings? I have certain religious accommodations that will prevent me from doing certain activities on Saturdays and I'd like to know what's covered to plan around it.
Day to day curriculum doesn't exist ahead of time for most courses. Being that I've instructed military courses, most instructors get approx two weeks to "prep" for the course (unless they're full time instructors); during that two weeks you review the lesson plans and build your schedule. Most times there is a great amount of latitude for the instructors (normally head instructor) to set up the course schedule. There are certain things that need to be done by the end of the course and by certain bench marks of the course; but for the most part a day to day schedule of events doesn't exist pre-course.
With that said as an instructor in many situations I had students of various religious backgrounds; and whenever possible their religious needs were accommodated (the biggest one that sticks in my memory is allowing students to leave my class at certain times of the day for prayer time). If you have food requirements, that becomes harder (aside from no pork, that's easy) to accommodate. There were a handful of times that just because of what we were doing we couldn't accommodate the religious requirements but the students were aware of the inability to accommodate well in advance.
ontheedge said:
3. How many on this forum are married and have more than 2 kids? It seems and I've heard that army life - if you're single - the world is your oyster - and if you're married - well, good luck to you.
I'm sure there are many on this forum that meet that requirement; I do not (I'm single) but I've served along side many individuals who have spouses and children. For full time members your career is what you make of it; if you show up Monday to Friday and do your job, but you do it really well good for you. If you're able to spend time volunteering (this is where parents come in because spending time with your kids beavers, scouts, girl guides, coaching the basketball/baseball team, or anything like that counts as volunteering) even better. One of the Sergeants I currently work with has two kids and he volunteers almost as much as I do as a single person, and it's because he volunteers with what his kids are doing.
As a Reservist, you'll be part time (unless you get a Class B contract); last time I worked at a Reserve Unit I'd say at least 90% of the unit has spouses and kids.
ontheedge said:
4. What has been particularly heart-wrenching is hearing the stories of e.g. single moms who haven't been very well accommodated in the Forces, moved around with young kids etc (doesn't apply to reserves I suppose but still...) Also, reading awful veteran stories... I feel like throwing up when I hear of the sacrifices and the "repayment" when the soldiers return. It's kind of my inspiration to join the Forces and do something about it ... but realistically, I'll be one of 87,000 cogs in the monster wheel...
In regards to the veteran stories, keep in mind that is not the CAF treating them that way - that is Veteran's Affairs which is a different agency entirely.
With the other situations, not to downplay what has happened to those individuals; but the CAF is a large organization. You take any organization the size of the CAF and there are going to be individuals who aren't happy.
If you have a spouse and kids and you join an occupation that is gone to sea (or deployed) most of your career, and then complain that you're never with your family - is that the fault of the person who joined that occupation or the organization? I know on the recruiter course, recruiters are taught to be honest that Regular Force members can potentially be moved every 3 to 5 years (sometimes quicker than 3 years due to promotions, courses, etc); and that when you're moved you may not get your #1 preference of where you want to move. To me it's disheartening to see media stories of people complaining about moving all over the place when the organization is open about that fact.
As a person joining the Reserves, you will only move if you choose to move. I've been in for 20 years now, all as a Reservist - I've been full-time since 2003 and I've been to Halifax, Ottawa, Kingston, Meaford, Borden & Victoria during my time in; and all of those locations (except Meaford, I was tasked there as an instructor for a short time period) I picked to go.
* Disclaimer: The above comments are based purely on my experience in the CAF, and should not be taken as official responses of the CAF. I make this disclaimer as many on here know I work within Recruiting so I want to be clear about my comments.