Digging at old wounds here. I read this article in yesterday's Ottawa Citizen. Here it is from the original publisher, The Telegraph (U.K.):
We must allow children the chance to fail
Life skills are as important as exams and IQ, says Yvonne Roberts.
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Sonny Grainger, aged 12, is described as a "one-boy wave of terror". He has been expelled from three schools and has tormented the lives of his neighbours. To his mother, however, Sonny's problem is not discipline; she says Sonny is suffering from Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), which causes him to be "hostile to authority figures".
ODD is said to affect up to 16 per cent of children. The "treatment" includes anger management and the teaching of social skills. But some argue that the real problem is that these youngsters have never been taught how to think of others or how to make sense of their own emotions. If Sonny continues to treat his neighbourhood as a war zone, then by his teens he will undoubtedly become one of the growing army of young people not in employment, education or training – the "Neets" – who already number one million.
The search for solutions to the problem of what is fast becoming a lost generation is creating some strange alliances. Last week, two opposing politicians agreed that a new form of National Service was needed. Frank Field, the Labour MP, advocated a compulsory six-month stint of service: a commando course in citizenship. Tim Loughton, the shadow minister for children and young people, offered a less drastic solution, suggesting a voluntary three-week session that would inculcate "self-respect, achievement and respect for others".
Loughton points out that a high proportion of teenagers say that their lives "lack purpose"; a number of international studies concur that the UK's young people are the most likely in industrial Europe to have a poor sense of wellbeing. And the recession is going to make things worse for young people across the academic spectrum. With 40,000 new graduates predicted to have a degree but no immediate career, a form of short-term civic service looks like treatment for a pimple when a plague of boils has broken out.
Of course, there are large numbers of young adults who are giving something back, finding jobs and living normal lives. But what is lacking in many other cases, and what many schools fail to prioritise, is the acquisition of grit, self-discipline and a sense of self-awareness.
Evidence from around the world shows that these skills contribute as much to success
at work and in life as IQ and academic qualifications. Yet a growing number of children find it difficult to manage their own emotions, or show empathy and understanding. They appear unable to exercise self-discipline or delay gratification. They cannot communicate effectively or work collaboratively. All these skills are necessary in life, and in a globalised job market. So why are they so difficult to acquire?
A friend's son may provide a clue. He is 18, privately educated, and has flunked his exams. He is musically talented, but expects to acquire fame without effort. He believes he is special because his parents – lovingly, mistakenly – have told him so, in a middle-class corruption of the cult of celebrity. As some parents erase every difficulty, their children never enter the school of hard knocks. As the psychologist Prof Martin Seligman, author of The Optimistic Child, points out, "Children need to fail… If we leap in to bolster self-esteem to soften the blows… we make it harder for them to achieve mastery."
But the problems of the cosseted middle classes pale in comparison to the children struggling with poverty and deprivation. Often prematurely branded as failures by the education system, many of these children lack the life skills that were once acquired from stable families or apprenticeships.
James Heckman, the American economist and Nobel laureate, has shown that, in some cases, well-developed social and emotional capabilities – the kind of "character education" taught by public schools for centuries – are more important than IQ.
A recent American review of 207 programmes teaching these qualities showed an 11 per cent improvement in achievement tests, and a 10 per cent decrease in misbehaviour, depression and anxiety. Too often in Britain
we fail to tell children this inspirational story: they might not be the brightest, but they can still be the best.
What we need, then, is an end to the one-size-fits-all model in state schools, and to move to a system that encourages children of every level of intellectual ability to make the most of their assets. Some schools have already broken free, and others should be allowed to follow – my own group, the Young Foundation, supports a number of projects to bring together the best of vocational and academic education with social and emotional development.
An education system fit for the 21st century would be diverse. Its aim should not just be academic success, but the creation of a good citizen. It would also be one very positive way in which we could reboot social mobility and revive the civic sphere – as well as giving children like Sonny a springboard to a better future.
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Oppositional Defiance Disorder?? Give me a freakin' break! :
Article makes some excellent points, though and most of the comments are worth reading.