PuckChaser said:
On that same note, if you can't own up to your past drug use, how can you expect your subordinates to own up and speak to you if they have a drug problem?
I do not have any problem admitting to or talking about any of my past drug use in detail with those who need to know.
You have a good point about being able to have subordinates trust me. This seems to be a bit of a tricky problem, because I do see some attitudes that suggest if a person has ever smoked pot that they aren't reliable at all. I think I could run into that kind of attitude, so it would be pretty stupid to tell people under me right off the bat about everything, nor do I think that it would be necessary or expected of me to tell them everything. I think it is reasonable that I should have some discretion about it (and again, in terms of telling people who do not need to know).
Of course I wouldn't want subordinates to feel that they can't approach me, especially if it were about a drug problem. I'm sure that members of the military who do develop drug problems while on active duty must be incredibly fearful of being judged by their peers and facing negative consequences - much more so than people in civilian life. I don't think it would be an easy balance because I think being too open with people who don't yet know you might lose confidence in you if you disclose too much right away. It does take time to develop trust with people.
You're applying to be an officer in the Regular Force, that means if you have troops under you, their problems become your problems.
You do have a very good point and I appreciate your feedback. I think personal questions like these are anxiety provoking for most people. I think it would be more worrying if an applicant were happy to list all of the drugs they have ever used because it would almost be like they are happy to brag about it. I think this thread largely exists because it's normal for people to get anxious about being asked personal questions, especially when it involves things that they aren't entirely happy about and that people might judge them for. I hope I've made clear that I do not have a problem admitting to any drug use. Most of my drug use was over ten years ago anyway.
Still, let's put it this way: I've never intravenously administered a drug to myself, but if someone asked me, "Have you ever used needle drugs?" I wouldn't want to answer the question (again, even though the answer is "no"). It's about knowing who is asking the question, why they're asking it and who will have access to that information. I think most people who have never used a needle drug would happily answer the question and I'm sure my reluctance to answer would be looked at with suspicion, but I feel like that about any personal question: just being happy about the answer doesn't mean that I will want to answer the question.
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Puck Chaser,
Thank you for both of your replies. My apologies for applying to them piecemeal but I only saw one initially.
I have no intention of being dishonest. I take the idea of working for the CAF seriously. Past drug use is a legitimate concern and it
should be. I know that drug use is unacceptable in the military. I know myself that I would not use drugs while employed by the CAF.
What you told me has already set my mind at ease. I don't think it should be too surprising that I was thrown off by how these questions might be asked. It's just the kind of thing that I want to know that nobody can have access to except those who need to know.
I mentioned (or implied) that I would prefer to answer these questions in a face to face conversation. I think it is much more difficult to answer questions like this in a face to face discussion.
It's more about the being asked to fill out a form like that and possibly not knowing who gets access to the information and worrying that the information might be seen by someone who doesn't need to know.
I knew that it would not only be MOs who I would discuss this with. It's really about knowing who needs what information ahead of time. I didn't mean to imply that I would only speak with this kind of thing to an MO, but I'd want to be told who needs to know what.
Eye in the Sky,
How about you either (1) apply to the CAF and accept the way we recruit or (2) don't apply.
I know my feelings are not entirely rational, but they're feelings so that's how they work (i.e. they aren't rational), so I asked. I don't see any harm in asking questions. I think it is better that I ask questions.
I could also express my discomfort and ask the recruiter to tell me who receives this information. Maybe it would say on the sheet, but it's the not knowing that causes me to worry. My concerns about confidentiality are legitimate.