Having been sober for a year with the exception of a glass of scotch or wine with/after dinner and an odd party or two every few months I have this to say.
Smoking marijuana heavily through grade school (gr. 5 to past gr. 12) in northern Alberta I feel like I am who I am because of my use and probably wouldn't have even applied to the army without my past. I'd have done better in school and gone to a trade or perhaps something else. I tried mushrooms 4 times starting with my graduation celebration (irony huh) and later tried LSD. Had a terrible, literally, raging experience on it. I was drunk, smoked up, it was Halloween and LSD sounded interesting. Without this experience I wouldn't have gotten sober. It literally scared me straight being that out of control. It made me turn my life around, I have always been a pretty cool guy, drummer, guitarist, mechanically inclined (welding, machining, mechanics, landscaping, machinery operation, etc), I'm sporty/fit, intelligent despite "dead brain cells (load of BS)," extremely good with people in person (online I get aggressive lol) and I have just become a much better person since sobering up.
I passed the CFAT, qualified for almost every trade, was honest with my exact usage on the medical form and the recruiter pulled me into a room, said "got a busy history here son" we chuckled and talked, he realized I squared myself away, I got professional diving certs and am a master scuba diver trainer (PADI - excellent leadership training btw) and first aid instructor. They are scheduling my medical and interview early Jan. Doesn't seem like I have to wait 3 years due to hallucinogens so I think they make exceptions based on their overall experience with you, might be wrong and they may tell me I have to wait, but why would they go ahead and book me in the new year for med/interview ? Idk, maybe they'll tell me after the medical, which would come up clean. Doesn't make sense to waste their resources and they didn't say anything regarding 3 year wait at all.
Anyway point is, despite heavy use, with honesty and integrity, some confidence to fess up and be a mature man/lady they'll give you a chance. I really hate all you anti-pot people, it has great benefits and smoking happens to be the best method of dosage, thc pills don't really work so that argument is invalid. Sure, it should be regulated and medical cards need to be respected and not abused so the people who genuinely need it can get it. I however also believe the forces require sobriety, even from heavy alcohol use and I hear that issue is pretty prevalent, perhaps more in America idk how bad it is with CAF.
My past use of pot, however illicit, made me extremely creative/crafty (not cunning or manipulative - had people misinterpret crafty) and seek out experiences that sculpted ironically my responsibility, leadership and appreciation/general respect be it for nature, fellow man or what have you. Some fine traits I would think.. Sure I can be an asshole but that's more personality than past drug experimentation. I think if you haven't tried drugs (don't go starting now though) you are less (perhaps) dynamic of a character, kinda mundane without some altered consciousness experiences.
I wouldn't say these people are any less awesome or anything, they just can't really connect to say 90% of the rest of society on that level. They might not be able to feel sympathy for the out of control street people who couldn't control themselves, which is sad, not something to be scoffed at as many "sober-lifers" I know do (well if I can do why can't everyone-people). Some of the best memories that I'll cherish forever involved friends, or being alone in nature, a little high, and sometimes sober. Deal with it. If you met me you'd trust me in the trenches with your life too. Just fun facts and my humble opinion on this subject as I have been quite involve for a few years.
Good luck and sorry for any typos, I'm on a greyhound to visit family for Christmas and I'm typing on my phone.
Happy holidays :snowman: