Gunnar
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Think of it this way...this is a soldier's mess that allows civvies inside. The rules are essentially those with which the soldiers feel comfortable, and designed to keep it as a soldier's mess that allows civvies inside. It is not permitted to morph into a public bar with soldiers in it. These soldiers are letting you drink with them, and inasmuch as they feel you deserve it, they'll occasionally buy a round and let you do the same.
Think of it as the military embassy to the rest of the world. Just because you're allowed in the embassy doesn't mean you get to tell the ambassadors how to do things, nor do you get to sit in their chairs.
And yes...sometimes they're just plain too hard on people. Military professionals or not, they get tired, get drunk, get fed up just like the rest of us...and this is their bar, and we're just friendlies asking wide-eyed questions about what it's like to be a soldier. I'm not always sure that I always agree with moderator decisions either...but I have noticed something: They are pretty consistent on what they will or won't allow. This means that even if the rules are not popular with some, they are clear and understandable, and once you've read a few threads and seen a few "acts of moderation" you should be able to figure out where the boundaries lie.
To try to let you see the big picture...say you meet someone, invite them back to your place for a few beers...you talk about your shared interest in cars and chicks...and then the guy goes on and on about your taste in furniture and how it's arranged, and how he wouldn't arrange his furniture that way, and you obviously don't know anything about cars and chicks because just one look at your furniture and you can tell that.....you'd think that this guy was a complete doofus, and you wouldn't invite him back.
Soldiers operate on certain shared principles that they expect to be in place...they've become men (and women, but I mean it in the sense of 'becoming a man' - autonomous, responsible, thinking person) by accepting responsibility for their actions, having good reasons for what they do, and not pretending to have more experience than they actually have...because failure to do any of these things in a theatre of combat gets people killed. When someone comes into this 'soldiers mess' and makes statements, their comments are given all the respect they would get if the comment came from another soldier (or someone who 'gets it')....until it's obvious they're operating outside of these principles. Then, because it's a public web-site, they take escalating corrective measures until they can weed out those who are switched on from those who aren't.
So take your warning in the spirit it was intended...just a friendly hand on the shoulder from someone of more experience. This seems to be what you're doing anyway....carry on...
(modified to add---actually, it appears I've answered the original question...the ideology is autonomy, responsibility and considered action...not pretending to me more than you are...intellectual honesty....)
Think of it as the military embassy to the rest of the world. Just because you're allowed in the embassy doesn't mean you get to tell the ambassadors how to do things, nor do you get to sit in their chairs.
And yes...sometimes they're just plain too hard on people. Military professionals or not, they get tired, get drunk, get fed up just like the rest of us...and this is their bar, and we're just friendlies asking wide-eyed questions about what it's like to be a soldier. I'm not always sure that I always agree with moderator decisions either...but I have noticed something: They are pretty consistent on what they will or won't allow. This means that even if the rules are not popular with some, they are clear and understandable, and once you've read a few threads and seen a few "acts of moderation" you should be able to figure out where the boundaries lie.
To try to let you see the big picture...say you meet someone, invite them back to your place for a few beers...you talk about your shared interest in cars and chicks...and then the guy goes on and on about your taste in furniture and how it's arranged, and how he wouldn't arrange his furniture that way, and you obviously don't know anything about cars and chicks because just one look at your furniture and you can tell that.....you'd think that this guy was a complete doofus, and you wouldn't invite him back.
Soldiers operate on certain shared principles that they expect to be in place...they've become men (and women, but I mean it in the sense of 'becoming a man' - autonomous, responsible, thinking person) by accepting responsibility for their actions, having good reasons for what they do, and not pretending to have more experience than they actually have...because failure to do any of these things in a theatre of combat gets people killed. When someone comes into this 'soldiers mess' and makes statements, their comments are given all the respect they would get if the comment came from another soldier (or someone who 'gets it')....until it's obvious they're operating outside of these principles. Then, because it's a public web-site, they take escalating corrective measures until they can weed out those who are switched on from those who aren't.
So take your warning in the spirit it was intended...just a friendly hand on the shoulder from someone of more experience. This seems to be what you're doing anyway....carry on...
(modified to add---actually, it appears I've answered the original question...the ideology is autonomy, responsibility and considered action...not pretending to me more than you are...intellectual honesty....)