I know that it is impossible to please everyone and that some wives would definitely be less than thrilled at the prospect. I don't feel that it's too much to ask for though. I just think about what previous generations had to endure..years without their husbands, limited communications, less financial benefits, etc. Compared to them we are truly fortunate...we know when (approx.) our husbands will return, internet and telephones (when available), financial benefits, etc..
Although I miss my husband, I feel that now is not the time to be focusing on me or even him but the greater good that is being accomplished and that the needs of the mission should come first.