Casing said:
I'm not so sure of that. We're talking about different times altogether.
Perhaps she loved her job, just not some of the people and incidents she had to deal with? During the early 80s --- just being a woman in the CF (or the 'professional' Canadian civil workplace) saw discrimination as tolerable, acceptable, and
normal. Women being paid less than men for doing the same jobs etc. These were times when even straight Canadian women were released from the CF due to becoming pregnant. These were times when even civilian employment tolerated and condoned discrimination against the female workplace in the way of wage disparity, hours, stereotyping , promotions etc.
You know - if every one of the women who lived and 'worked' through these times had simply given up and gotten the hell out, the CF wouldn't be where we are today. That doesn't mean that by the fact that they stayed in that they "accepted" what was happening to them or that what was happening to them was "right". It also doesn't mean that what happened to them didn't have "negative effect".
This case in particular happens to be about a female, but this wasn't limited to women - gay men found themselves treated as pariahs by all of Canadian society as well. Some of them made it through careers in the CF - tough as that may have been for them - I am quite sure it has affected some of them for the rest of their lives. Gay men have sued as well.
The fact is, Canadian society as a whole has advanced - in a very good way - on this front. By choosing to "stay" in the CF and tolerate the crap, they simply choose "
where they were going to be subjected to the poison". This does, in a way, speak well of the CF - these people loved their jobs and their Country enough to stay in it through the hard times and the discrimination - they just didn't happen to love the abuse and discrimination that occured as parcel to that.
The argument that if one doesn't like discrimination they should just get out else that discrimination is their fault for putting up with it or that by their "staying in" we've somehow proved it didn't affect them, just doesn't wash with me. We have plenty of members in the CF even today who lived through those times, witnessed some of that discrimination, were subject to it, or tossed some of it upon others themselves - male and female (lest there be any mistake that this is a 'female' thing).
I've never found myself to be the victim of discrimination/harassment etc, but I can assure you that I have sat with many a men out in the field, in the mess etc, and we talk about the "days" back when I'd not be allowed to be doing some of the things I've done. Comments such as "I never thought I'd see the day when we'd have a chick in F Troop with us" or "it's not like the old days when the women only came out of the typing pools when coffee had to be served to VIPs". I've heard - from guys who were around when that was the norm. And a great many of them think back and say the same comments as I "thank gawd that times have changed."
I will not be convinced that
some people who were on the shitty end of that stick and those times were not profoundly affected by things that happened to them during those times. Plain old statistics and human nature dictate that some of them
must have been negatively impacted by events and occurrences.