TylerSnap! said:
I realize the Regiment comes first. However, I believe my responsibilities will allow me to stay in Ontario.
I can't think of a single "responsibility" that will ensure you get to Pet and remain there for your career.
1) If it's a "compassionate" family related responsibility that precludes you from posting elsewhere -- it'll also preclude you from deploying anywhere. You should really understand that right now. Sometimes these situations occur and are quite justifiable -- such as going through a divorce etc.
2) I have seen this occur three times in my career, and all three were due to a child who had a a medical condition which required advanced treatment facilities. In one case, the child had to be within one hour of a major children's hospital. Those situations are unavoidable ... and very very rare.
3) Looking after elderly relativs etc. It's done all the time by members -- either financially, physically, or both. In those cases, if the elderly parents live with you etc -- it is expected that they move with you when you are posted.
4) Legal issues. Going through a divorce etc. You will be told to sort your shit out. As soon as those issues are dealt with, and you will have to inform your CoC when that finalisation occurs, --- you are back to being treated just like anyone else.
5) Child whom is not in your custody lives there with the mother. Oh well, there's tonnes of divorced couples in the CF -- some posted on the opposite sides of the country from their kids. Fly Westjet. If YOU have a child and have custody, and that custody order prevents you from leaving Ontario -- it is your responsibility to go back to the court and the judge and explain the circumstances of your "job" to have that restriction lifted so that you can be posted elsewhere. IT also happens ALL the time. That would fall into the category of "Adminstrative" issue that you need to sort out.
The question I have for you is that you state you'd had no problems with deploying etc. That, to me, pretty much shuts down your entire arguement about "Petawawa" being the only possible location that you should be. Answer me this: If it is impossible for you to be posted anywhere but location "X" because you are needed there so "desperately" in your eyes ... then how could whomever/whatever "possibly do without you while you were somewhere else on a deployment"?? I won't be the only one asking that question. I'm quite sure your CoC would ask it too the first time you walked in and asked why your name was left off the CFTPO "deployment X". My answer would be "because you already told us that you couldn't possibly be anywhere but here -- live with it."