Did you ever see one of the chain of Ontario hospitals when they were up and running with a decent budget. They were really well designed and welcoming structures, single story in a country setting on a very large chunk of real estate. They did not in any way resemble the notorious Queen str. that every one in the Toronto area associated with mental health
No I didn't, I grew up in Summerside PEI. My only exposure to mental health wings in hospitals was in the Prince County hospital, both the old one and the new one. The old PCH mental health wing looked just like any other wing. The new PCH one was more secure and felt like a mental jail. Neither were a desirable place to be.
@Dana381 's mother is not alone. There are many people that want to help. But society shouldn't just dump the problem on the shoulders of people like her and pretend it has been solved.
Well done on your mom! This is one of the kinds of out-of-hospital care that can be offered, as well as other types of supported housing or drop-in help for people living "on the economy". That's all the kind of help that wasn't set up (or not enough of it quickly enough) when de-institutionalization happened, which is one element of the problem of getting the right help to the right people.
That's exactly why it's politically cooler to put up buildings than to spend money on staffing them - also easier as one-time capital funding, too.
Thanks for the kind words.
The funny part is I don't think mom is aware of the impact she had. I was realizing it myself as I was typing my post. Mom was just being herself. She genuinely cares for people. She went on to spend much of the last 10 years coming alongside family members who were dying. She spent two years hanging out with my father in law who was dying of COPD. Then a year with her baby brother who was dying of prostate cancer (died just after his 50th birthday). Then a year or so with her mom who passed at 83 I think.
I guess my point in all this is that she didn't set out to help these guys, it just happened because they seen her care was genuine. I don't think what she did could be copied by a government program.
A lot of that was the ease of throwing people ‘away’ into those sorts of facilities
There needs to be some sort of balance.
Clearly some people do need ‘the rubber room’ type of facility as they are an extreme danger to themselves and others.
However the vast majority of persons do not, and the old dump them in the sewer method clogged and backed up with resulted in what exists now.
I’ve picked up 2 ‘customers’ from MH facilities, for transportation elsewhere. Neither was a good person, and I doubt they where every either going to get their needed help, nor are they going to be out in public anytime before the next century…
I have seen many people who did need help, that were not yet far gone, but the best one could do was slap bracelets on and take them to the Country Detention center.
I’m far from a MH professional, and I’m not a big fan of public spending, but I’m also a human being who sees others who need help, that if not given help will be a re-occurring problem or worse, and so in this case on can be humanitarian and financial prudent.
Your very right, There is no one size fits all solution. I am not an MH professional either but my observation is that most government programs focus on one aspect of the problem and not the general well being of the clients.
My wife's cousin tried the methadone program and stopped it because it was just enabling the addiction. He then watched his sister be enabled by it and get more addicted. There was no support to get off opiates only the methadone to take the symptoms away. According to him methadone was no different than heroine.
I have never been to a safe injection site. They seem to solve the problem of spreading disease but what do they do to address the underlying problem that makes someone want to shoot up in the first place.
Drug addiction is a complex issue and people are complex and we have complex problems. People who can't navigate life without drugs need complex solutions.
NA works well for some, it is a complex program that requires someone to really want to get clean.
I have a friend who got clean from cocaine and other drugs through Teen Challenge, he went on to be successful and have a beautiful family.