[quote author=Another Mom]But then, I guess the students that work only for grades in school, turn out to be the same ones who work at a job only for the money. Sad.
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While my opinions and experiences are merely anecdotal, I would like to point out that at least in my case, this statement does not hold true. grades are precisely what I worked for in school. I, quite literally, craved the 'A's and 90%+ marks. I did that through grade school, high school and university and eventually led me to graduate as one of the top students in the province.
What did I end up doing after I left university for many moons?
Farm work. Not exactly your six-figure job (unless you count the zeroes after the decimal place), and it wasn't a family business. I would often work extra hours, not because it paid (because it didn't), but because it gave me skills and opportunities I mightn't have had otherwise. I had a drive to succeed, because there were no more 'A's or 90%+ marks to be had, and money is no indicator of happiness. At the end of the day, I was exhausted, paid only minimum wage, but had the time of my life and learned a tremendous amount.
On top of this, it has been my experience that those who are "after the money" are often those who are driven to do the least amount of work possible, both in work and school. I don't see too many people who work their butts off throughout school, and expect to coast after that.
Perhaps we need more alternatives for young people who really do not want to go the academic route and are wasting everyone's time.
This quote really confused me. I don't think our society needs more strata of bureaucracy and red tape, especially when we already have established systems to deal with people who do not wish to pursue academic achievement. Trade schools (though I believe even they are drifting outside of their mandate with programs for such things as diplomas in food service that amount to little more than a SmartServe certification and a job posting at Tim Horton's), apprenticeships, or even my method: going off into the community and knocking on doors. The latter will often yield not only job opportunities, but a greater involvement in one's community (a priceless thing, to be sure).
Just to clarify, I never commented about the quality of professors and I don't think anyone here said this was about "lousy" profs. I was commenting on a "System" where there are too many students in impersonal classes. I am sure committed profs do not want to teach in that system as committed students do not want to learn that way.
I respectfully disagree. Not because all teachers or professors are bad, but they themselves are a product of the system they serve.
I can't count the number of professors I have had that essentially goofed off while working. I had one professor who often didn't show up for class. I had another who gave a hundred plus pages of reading for a week for an exam that consisted of 10 multiple choice questions that were often about inconsequential material. I even recall one professor who was fired from one of my universities who offered a guaranteed 70% to anyone who promised not to show up to any more classes. This doesn't even begin to count the number of classes I hve had that have been nearly exclusively taught by a TA who knew less about the lesson of the day than the students.
It is my belief that education has become a commodity, to be researched, manufactured, marketed, packaged, bought, sold and it really wouldn't surprise me if, when one turned education over, there was a sticker that said "Made in China". I need only point to enrolment levels in criminology programs in universities and colleges when CSI was popular. Likewise after Jurassic Park came out, palaeontology majors sky rocketed. It was the same with archaeology and Indiana Jones, or to bring it closer to home, the USAF with Top Gun.
All of this, however revolves around my belief that much of the blame rests squarely on the shoulders of the face in the mirror. Too often people say that they are "too busy" for their family duties. These are people who show poor time management skills, and try to buy their way into familial success.
Contrast this with my own anecdotal evidence: my mother, a single woman (by choice), who attended university (before I was born) and took correspondence courses after I was born (imagine that, not bringing your screaming child into classes -- it has happened). She worked fulltime as well, and yet still managed to write a note in my lunch, or take me to sports, or smack my butt raw if I stepped out of line (and I did, and she did ;D)
I believe our undoing is not the schools, or the children, but the relationship that our culture seems to think is not only normal but healthy to maintain with your children. Fix that, and I believe we'd all see a big jump in normalcy.