I'm still pissed on another aspect of this. In a "normal" year posting messages would have been out a lot sooner then they were this year and there would have been 3 to 4 months before COS to sell a home and move. Add to that the 30 day COS extension that could be requested and for many of us that is enough time to sell, buy and move. This year msgs were so late that many had 2.5 months till COS and then, if it was granted, the 30 day extension. Many of us still find ourselves in a position where we cant sell and now must make a choice to go unaccompanied till we sell, take the family and rent on the other end till we sell or risk a huge loss on our homes that may or may not be covered. Either way causes a huge financial and emotional burden on the member.
In my case I have no choice but to go unaccompanied as I was denied any further extension beyond my initial 30 days. Oh sure I will get an amout designed at cover what DND says should be my rent on a room at a private rental or more for a furnished suite but even with the list the OR gave me and two weeks of kijiji ads I will still need to pay min $200 extra for a room or $435 extra for a suite out of my own pocket to live unaccompanied while we try to sell. Add to that the costs for MY food, MY gas, MY parking at my residence (over what DND) reimburses, or the cost of a bus pass and the extra commute time, and my other misc costs PLUS the normal costs for my family back home and I just dont know how we are going to do it. Im so pissed at those who abused the previous IR system benifits that used to cover such things and were intended for those who really needed them. I remember being told years ago that the IR system was there and they couldnt spend it all so make use of it if you want so I cant just blame the users I guess.
I guess I'm off to my new posting, incuring more debt, leaving my family behind, stressing my wife, disrupting my kids schooling all while I eat ramen noodles and close to expired Dollar Store knock off Alphagetti. Yep, there's no life like it.