Biggest problem once people get some rank on the shoulder and move up the chain or the ladder of command, they start to feel like they are untouchable. Who is going to complain to my boss, because I have only 3 bosses above me?
Using an Army system of rank.
You have a LCOL who is in charge on paper of running a battle school. Young recruits are being taught there, the instructors are all Cpls, MCpls, Sgts, WO, MWO and 2lt, Lt. and then this LCOL.
LCOL has his own dress code, wears crazy stuff on his uniform, but no one can address this mis adventure of dress code violations. But young Pte R see this LCOL running around doing the various CO parades , final course barrack inspections etc. Question comes to mind why do I have to wear this head dress, in this fashion, why do can I not wear SPG or TGuns on my collar dogs , or wear a scarf around my neck etc.
As a NCM, or very JR Officer you cannot address this LCOL and jack him up. You have to let it slide because it is above your pay level and rank.
This sort of behaviour goes beyond just dress code infractions.
Rank has its privileges good and bad. You can get a car and driver, and get to sleep on a cot instead of the floor or the ground, but you serve the meal, eat last, every one laughs at your bad jokes, but you lead from the front and show up in the rain and smile because you know your troops are going to show up and stand in the rain in front of you.
This is includes the sexual comments and unwanted touching, as a JR person, who do you report your boss to for bad behaviour? Do you look at career road blocks you might be throwing up in front of your career because the upper levels might see it as you not going to play the game when you move up the ladder ? Or are they going to see you as a person who cannot take a joke, or what ever the excuse is they think of for you not going along with their actions?
It is time for the people who wear the stars, the maple leafs, or the chain of office start looking at things without their power coloured glasses on.
Treat the people below them as if they were actual family members ( police services call it a brotherhood, ( that has to change it is a familyhood since both sexes are in the service now ) and how would they like to hear that comment about their daughter or wife by a fellow brass hatter or even someone below them in rank?
Maybe some of these police officers need to know what it is like to hear that some one want to stick a gun up their butts, or maybe do something nasty to their wife or daughter even in jest, it is still a sick joke.