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For those of you who may not know, Don‘t Ask Don‘t Tell Don‘t Pursue Don‘t Harass (DADTDPDH) was signed into law in 1993 and allows GLB Americans to serve in the armed forces as long as they keep their orientation hidden and do not act on their sexuality.
Speaking from personal experience, it‘s common to hear anti-gay slurs in the ranks. This has completely stopped with my men (because they not that I do not tolerate any kind of bull****) but it‘s rampant in most of the armed services. Ironically, it‘s least common in the army and most common in the navy - ironic considering the navy‘s reputation. Proportionally, the other services discharge significantly more service members for being gay than the army does.
IMO, this policy is based on fear and a ghastly portrayal of GLBT people from the right-wing in this country. The policy fuels anti-gay behavior in the armed services because this discrimination is backed by the government.
Considering that gays have served and always will serve in large numbers in the military, is it fair to ask them to hide their orientation? Whether or not they are officially recognized, they exist. I‘m certainly not an advocate of gay pride parades in the military, but IMO this policy is more detrimental to morale for several reasons:
a) GLBs are frightened. Witch Hunts, though now illegal, are frequently conducted by commanders.
b) Non-GLBs, afraid to be associated with GLBs, feel that they have to brag/lie about their machoness to mask any perceived orientation. Also, to distance oneself from GLBs, one feels pressured to use anti-gay slurs and make fun of GLBs. Those more feminine are often teased.
People who are adamant about keeping this policy in place claim that removing the policy would hurt troop morale and trust. Now, I‘m in special forces, and I don‘t give a **** whether the person to my left or right is gay, straight or transexual, as long as they do their jobs correctly.
Recently, a LTC in the army was discovered to be having sex off base with another man. He faced an administrative discharge board in which 5 of the 6 COLs on the board claimed that homosexuality was a disease. He received a dishonorable discharge and thus lost all his benefits and pension, etc.
Does Canada have any problem with GLBs in the military?
Sorry about the poor grammar, I haven‘t slept in over 24 hours, really tired and not making much sense I‘m afraid. Forgive me.
Speaking from personal experience, it‘s common to hear anti-gay slurs in the ranks. This has completely stopped with my men (because they not that I do not tolerate any kind of bull****) but it‘s rampant in most of the armed services. Ironically, it‘s least common in the army and most common in the navy - ironic considering the navy‘s reputation. Proportionally, the other services discharge significantly more service members for being gay than the army does.
IMO, this policy is based on fear and a ghastly portrayal of GLBT people from the right-wing in this country. The policy fuels anti-gay behavior in the armed services because this discrimination is backed by the government.
Considering that gays have served and always will serve in large numbers in the military, is it fair to ask them to hide their orientation? Whether or not they are officially recognized, they exist. I‘m certainly not an advocate of gay pride parades in the military, but IMO this policy is more detrimental to morale for several reasons:
a) GLBs are frightened. Witch Hunts, though now illegal, are frequently conducted by commanders.
b) Non-GLBs, afraid to be associated with GLBs, feel that they have to brag/lie about their machoness to mask any perceived orientation. Also, to distance oneself from GLBs, one feels pressured to use anti-gay slurs and make fun of GLBs. Those more feminine are often teased.
People who are adamant about keeping this policy in place claim that removing the policy would hurt troop morale and trust. Now, I‘m in special forces, and I don‘t give a **** whether the person to my left or right is gay, straight or transexual, as long as they do their jobs correctly.
Recently, a LTC in the army was discovered to be having sex off base with another man. He faced an administrative discharge board in which 5 of the 6 COLs on the board claimed that homosexuality was a disease. He received a dishonorable discharge and thus lost all his benefits and pension, etc.
Does Canada have any problem with GLBs in the military?
Sorry about the poor grammar, I haven‘t slept in over 24 hours, really tired and not making much sense I‘m afraid. Forgive me.