dcs said:
RMC has married student quarters. Lifestyle many not change significantly, or for certain periods of time not matter what stream one takes.
If it is this much of a concern, then give applying a lot of thought.
This is incorrect. Please ensure your information is accurate before distributing it to people who may factor it in to their decision-making process.
The old Married Quarters to which you refer have been converted to office space and are now used for CDA HQ.
There are no married quarters on campus outside the Commandant's residence, which is occupied by the RMC Commandant and his family.
dcs said:
When son gave us the tour, he showed us the buildings that contained married student housing. I am not sure how it is allotted or requirements to secure. There seemed to be quite a few.
The quarters you refer to are those I have described above. They are now offices and there are no alternative married-quarters.
Talk to the recruiting centre or perhaps best to call RMC directly and discuss if this is a concern.
Don't bother asking your RC. To be honest, most of the time at RMC we find out that the RCs deal with far to many other situations to be intimately familiar with the way things work at RMC, so they probably won't be able to help you with info regarding accommodations for married cadets. Try talking to someone at RMC first. That is the best source of info about RMC.
Absolutely agree that it is important for children to be with their parents. Just not sure that a military nurse or other will trade will not have a number of times where the demands and requirements simply do not allow. Perhaps there are base hospitals that one can spend the vast majority of their military career. There may also be deployments required that would regretfully separate family even with quite young children. My son knows of a number of officers that were not for example home for quite a number of important family occasions and times.
I think that deployment/family should be or already is discussed in other blogs.
Family separation is a reality for CF members entering via any route. Your comparison of deployments to RMC is also a bit of a stretch. Of course your family isn't going to join you in Afghanistan on your tour. Being in Afghanistan for 6-9 months is very different than 4 years of university/military training in Kingston. There are so many factors that make deployments different that studying that I won't insult your intelligence by listing them.
Your attitude towards people not wanting to attend RMC ignores context or lifestyles that are different than those of your children. Unless you're prepared to say that we should not recruit married individuals, or individuals with children, then you have no right casting judgement on those who want to serve in the CF, but don't want to spend a whole 4 years separated from their loved ones. (EDIT: To clarify that, by loved ones, I refer to spouses/children. Obviously there is a natural separation from parents/siblings when one embarks on a military career. Separation from immediate family, however, is usually short-term in the grand scheme of things, for the sake of deployments/operations or particular courses, or short postings.)
We have a very small number of OCdts who are permitted to live off-campus with their families (aside from those in the UTPNCM program) and we also have a number of OCdts who would like to live off-campus with their spouses, but are not permitted to. They continue to occupy quarters with the rest of the cadet wing.
The policy these days is that all OCdts live on-campus, anything else is an exception to the rule, and they are very few and far between.
If you have ANY QUESTIONS about RMC, please contact RMC directly (I believe there is a liaison office you can find on the RMC website), or PM me because I do go there and know a bit about how things work.
If you think yo have ANY ANSWERS about RMC, like dcs does, then please be careful to verify your information before propagating misinformation.
Also, don't feel guilty if you want to join the CF and not go to RMC. You are allowed to have that preference, and don't worry if other people can't get their mind around the fact that your lifestyle isn't the same as their 18 year old fresh-out-of-high school child who has no need to bring dependents with them.
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I think this thread has journeyed sufficiently far away from it's original topic that it's about time it returns to it...whatever it was.