Afghanistan, is it worth it- Cheating Spouse Thread
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One should try to remember it does not pay to have few discrete moments of lust/pleasure over a lifetime of trust and friendship. That being said, an affair is not the start of a strained relationship, its the result of one.
Too bad my now Ex did not think the way I try to.
No one deserves to get such disrespectul treatment, especially when they are deployed.
And life rolls on....
As for me, twice bitten now, and thrice shy.
Wes
Too bad my now Ex did not think the way I try to.
No one deserves to get such disrespectul treatment, especially when they are deployed.
And life rolls on....
As for me, twice bitten now, and thrice shy.
Wes
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AirCanuck said:
Unfortunately some people dont have the higher intelligence required to see what road they're on. But that being said it is people like that, that make the rest of us look good!
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I've been loathe to post anything on this thread, feeling like a bit of a hypocrite.
Yes, I have cheated in a relationship, once. Not while I was with my husband now, a previous relationship. I've also been cheated on. That road CPL4Life spoke about is a slippery slope indeed, and I agree that it's important to recognize those road signs. I will say, and it's no justification whatsoever, the relationship was doomed from the get go. The ex declared that he wanted to be able to sleep with whomever, but I couldn't. So he did. With his ex, and one of his female friends, and lord knows who else really. Why I stayed as long as I did (too long) I'll never know. And I suppose out of spite, I stepped out on him. Big red flag! Should have just left instead of staying to cause further damage. Spite is a nasty thing.
I call it a very low point in my life that I have made a conscious effort not to revisit. Do I get tempted? Of course, I'm human. I will admit I like eye candy as much as the next person. I just make it a point of looking but not touching.
Yes, I have cheated in a relationship, once. Not while I was with my husband now, a previous relationship. I've also been cheated on. That road CPL4Life spoke about is a slippery slope indeed, and I agree that it's important to recognize those road signs. I will say, and it's no justification whatsoever, the relationship was doomed from the get go. The ex declared that he wanted to be able to sleep with whomever, but I couldn't. So he did. With his ex, and one of his female friends, and lord knows who else really. Why I stayed as long as I did (too long) I'll never know. And I suppose out of spite, I stepped out on him. Big red flag! Should have just left instead of staying to cause further damage. Spite is a nasty thing.
I call it a very low point in my life that I have made a conscious effort not to revisit. Do I get tempted? Of course, I'm human. I will admit I like eye candy as much as the next person. I just make it a point of looking but not touching.
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Lil_T said:
Hello!!....I'm in the room.......
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I failed humility class.....
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