Well, since it was a CIC Officer involved, this seems to be the best place to post it.
From my way of looking at it, as a junior member of an exclusive club which allows us to wear the uniforms of officers, you owe it to all of us to 1) Not look bad and 2) not do anything that would make us look bad. Also 3) to RESPECT the contributions of others, particularly those on the pointy end, and to stay within your lanes. This will allow you to say "I am a part of that institution, and inasmuch as I would never consider myself a veteran, I have done everything I can to be as military as possible, within the realm of my capabilities and responsibilities, to know where my expertise ends and to enable youth to reach within themselves for a better person, modelled on what I project the Canadian Armed Forces to be".
For example, I am a civilian. Much of the cool stuff I know about leadership, dress and deportment was learned from ex-soldiers in civilian occupations. I have never pretended to be other than that. Sometimes, my opinion or understanding of military things is wrong - I take responsibility for that, and correct my information in light of correction by a serving member. I try to keep it real. The point is to be effective, not to live in some fantasy land of brass pins and salutes.
Pretending you're a bomb disposal expert, Navy Seal, JTF 12, Canadian Super-Ranger doesn't fall within those guidelines.