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This webpage has been helpful in the past, so possibly it can help me now. I am in a bit of a logistical grey area. I have a son born with my then common law before I enrolled. We are now split up due to me moving away, but I am still very much part of his life. Legally we never went to court, and have a pretty solid / friendly relationship. We left thinks as they are with our son in both our names, and no child support payments etc required. I am posted our east in Bagotville, and she is a civilian in Vancouver. My current plan is to have my son visit me every month for 5-8 days. The problem is I cannot get restricted posting here in Bagotville. I am not common-law, not married, and we never went to court to divide custody. The shacks I am in are very small, and shared accommodation. I have to share a bathroom, kitchen, and dining area with 5 others in my pod. As all shacks are, the walls are thin, and I don’t want to impose my family on the other officers living with me. Complicating this is the no visitor’s rule after 11pm. The base has single accommodations that would be perfect for me and my son + babysitter. The problem is, I cannot be moved without being restricted posted = common law, married, or have full custody of my son. Can anyone help me with this??. I am currently very low on funds, and PMQ of 640 a month + hydro, Internet, etc. is out of the question. It is extremely frustrating on me to see these open rooms across the rd. that would be perfect for my son to visit, and not be able to move in. The only solution from the clerks at base is to go common-law, but this is really an option due to us not being together, and her in Vancouver. If anyone has any insight to my situation?, please feel free to post, or PM me.
This webpage has been helpful in the past, so possibly it can help me now. I am in a bit of a logistical grey area. I have a son born with my then common law before I enrolled. We are now split up due to me moving away, but I am still very much part of his life. Legally we never went to court, and have a pretty solid / friendly relationship. We left thinks as they are with our son in both our names, and no child support payments etc required. I am posted our east in Bagotville, and she is a civilian in Vancouver. My current plan is to have my son visit me every month for 5-8 days. The problem is I cannot get restricted posting here in Bagotville. I am not common-law, not married, and we never went to court to divide custody. The shacks I am in are very small, and shared accommodation. I have to share a bathroom, kitchen, and dining area with 5 others in my pod. As all shacks are, the walls are thin, and I don’t want to impose my family on the other officers living with me. Complicating this is the no visitor’s rule after 11pm. The base has single accommodations that would be perfect for me and my son + babysitter. The problem is, I cannot be moved without being restricted posted = common law, married, or have full custody of my son. Can anyone help me with this??. I am currently very low on funds, and PMQ of 640 a month + hydro, Internet, etc. is out of the question. It is extremely frustrating on me to see these open rooms across the rd. that would be perfect for my son to visit, and not be able to move in. The only solution from the clerks at base is to go common-law, but this is really an option due to us not being together, and her in Vancouver. If anyone has any insight to my situation?, please feel free to post, or PM me.