Sir,
having read your eloquent response, I owe you a further apology.
I said earlier that you touched a nerve - that is when you said that the 'stock' of a veteran goes down when he is no longer needed.
I have been thinking of your post all day, and thinking of WW2 veterans I know, and how they have often been treated with far less respect than they deserve.
You lost a father, and your mother lost a husband, because of his sense of duty to his country, and now you are fighting for compensation - when really, I suspect, you would have rather had your father whole.
I guess I am (was) angry because I was not surprised that your father was treated so, because there are so many stories like this.
I knew a fellow who was taken prisoner at Dieppe. He was a tank crewman, and was fighting ashore, covering the retreat, when he was ordered to surrender. He spent almost three years in a German camp, and was sent home on a prisoner exchange in early '45 when the doctor determined that he was losing his mind. (He had been tortured.)
He said that he went into a Legion once after the war. When they found out he had been a prisoner, they called him a coward, and he never went back. He was a good man, but he spent the rest of his life coming to terms with anger. He died in 2003. He had come to terms with what had happened, he was proud of his service, but there was bitterness.
I suppose, in a way, you are fighting for him.
I am angry because I fear that if we do not fight hard, there is a strong possibility that our present casualties may also be swept aside. We live in a disposable society.
This war may last two years, it may last 20.
I already have lost one friend killed, and several wounded. I know that before it is all over, more friends will be casualties.
We are all willing to step up, because we are loyal to the country and to the profession.
But I am skeptical and perhaps cynical of many who claim to support our troops, but want something in return. I don't think that of you having read your position - I understand your point that veterans are veterans, regardless of the era.
I should let you know that there are many 'hangers-on' coming out of the woodwork - I have dealt with several personally. They want money, or brand endorsement, or 'face-time', all in the name of supporting the troops - but when there is nothing in it for them, they disappear. They make me feel gray.
I do not consider you one of those people, and I regret insinuating so earlier. Anger says stupid things.
I understand that the government should be held accountable to veterans benefits - you are quite correct.
I remain fearful of those who would use our military casualties and setbacks with quiet glee to gain a few votes - hence my initial cynicism, which I realize with reflection, was misplaced.
And your fight will hopefully set a precedent - decades after we have left Afghanistan, we will still have soldiers injured in body and mind.
In Edmonton, they opened a new veterans centre in 2005 - the one it replaced was shameful. The staff was caring, but the rooms were small, infested with vermin, lucid patients were mixed with those overcome with dementia.
It served as an unfitting end to those who arguably deserve more from this country than any other group - but so often they are tucked away out of sight and out of mind.
Politically, veterans have become lightweights.
Strangely, the new veterans centre in Edmonton was built largely from private donations - a nation that spends billions at a time could not come up with the extra $10 million (approx) to give these heroes a dignified repose.
I hope we do not repeat the same injustice. I look at my friends and I realize that many of them will not come through this present ordeal whole - as I say, if they were not willing to shoulder the risk, they would not volunteer. We do so out of love of something greater than money.
But I hope our past and future casualties are not neglected. I guess it will require a continuous fight, like all worthwhile things.