I remember how dangerous it was just after the incident, the streets were ablaze with burning tires, large mobs running back and forth up the main J'bad road, all camps and sites went into lockdown. Flash mobs would suddenly appear and charge at facilities, our site was attacked, rocks thrown etc. but we de escalated the situation and let it run its course. Now being an expat it has become very dangerous, the tensions were very high and any slight would send them off.
My perception of the Afghan people and culture is different now that i am over here and not in a military uniform. Of all the cultures and countries I have seen throughout my career, I have to admit that the Afghan people are the most respectful that I have interacted with abet with caveats of course. I found that they are hard working and honest and extend and reciprocate respect with respect. I am referring to the average villager, not the corruptted ones within this culture, the average Joe.
I Command approx 100 Afghan Officers, NCO's and guards, I know them all by name, I eat and have chi with them, we do not talk about religion or polotics, we talk about the children, families, education, they are teaching me Dari, and I am teaching them English. We help each other out and, I bought them gym and volleyball equipment and we have sports together. I give my weapons drill in Dari, I impress upon them that we are one team, no one is better than another and it is the most rewarding experience that I have had the opportunity to have.
Understanding the culture in important, as I mentoned above there are certain caveats, swearing and insults, we are used to that, but there are some insults which will drive them from being calm to slitting your throat in a mere second, 0-100mph in a second. Their religion is the most respected and important thing to them and they will defend it to the death.
Our ignorance of them is our Achilles's heel, with all the incidents of the book burning, videos of urinating on the corpses, the murders for sport, and other acts only work against us. For all the good we have done here, these incidents that keep reoccurring has cost America/NATO/ISAF to loose this war, The taliban aren't winning it, but rather America is loosing it.
This is a dangerous place, and these incidents only make more so.
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