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Friendly fire claims former Olympic athlete
ALEX DOBROTA AND OMAR EL AKKAD
From Tuesday's Globe and Mail
World-class runner and former Olympian Mark Anthony Graham was killed in Afghanistan yesterday, mistakenly hit by fire from a U.S. warplane.
"This is really sad news for his family and for the Olympic family as well," said Tim Bethune, who used to train with and compete against Private Graham, a sprinter who competed for Canada as part of the 4x400-metre relay team in the 1992 Barcelona Olympics.
He described the soldier as bright, determined and a hard worker. "He was a very tough competitor. You had to be at your very best to beat him," Mr. Bethune said.
"If anyone was not at their best, they'd suffer at the hands of Mark."
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Private Mark Anthony Graham is seen in an undated Department of National Defence photo. (CP)
John Cannon, who was Pte. Graham's track coach during the early 1990s, described Pte. Graham as a formidable athlete plagued by a series of injuries.
"He also had a lot of problems with his hamstring but he had other problems that kept him from reaching his potential," said Mr. Cannon, a coach for the Calgary International Track Club. "I think he went to the military to . . . represent his country as opposed to being a runner and represent his country that way."
Pte. Graham, who was 33, won two silver medals during the 1993 and 1994 Canadian Track and Field Championships, but quit athletics in 1994, Mr. Cannon said.
Pte. Graham was the oldest of three brothers, one of whom has also joined the military. He leaves behind a young daughter.
His family gathered in their small Hamilton bungalow to mourn yesterday and asked for privacy.
"They're in a fog and just weeping," Rev. George Horton, of Hamilton's Stewart Memorial Church, told The Canadian Press. Pte. Graham's father has been a long-time parishioner and trustee at the church.
"They are still in shock."
It has been a bloody weekend for Canadian soldiers in Afghanistan. Four other Canadian soldiers were killed in clashes Sunday with Taliban fighters. The identity of two of those soldiers was released Sunday. One remained unidentified at the family's request, but the military yesterday revealed the name of a third, Sergeant Shane Stachnik.
Sgt. Stachnik had proposed to his partner five months before boarding a plane to Afghanistan. She said yes, but they didn't get the chance to set the wedding date.
Struggling yesterday to come to terms with her fiancé's death, Darcy Mitton and the soldier's friends described him as a quiet man, a loving partner and a proud soldier.
"He was such a strong and sweet man," Ms. Mitton wrote in a statement. "He had strong morals, values, ethics and they showed in everything he did."
The couple had put off discussing a wedding date until February, when Sgt. Stachnik was scheduled to end the six-month tour of duty that he began three weeks ago.
He was planning to return home in October for a short leave to see Ms. Mitton. "We were just looking forward to seeing each other," she said through sobs in a telephone interview. Sgt. Stachnik joined the Canadian Forces in the 1990s. In 1997, he helped fight the Winnipeg flood that forced thousands from their homes. "He said it was times like this when it was worth serving your country," Ms. Mitton wrote.
The sergeant was a member of the 2 Combat Engineer Regiment based in Petawawa, Ont. He was driven by a strong desire to help others, his family and friends said yesterday.
Sgt. Stachnik completed at least two other tours of duty overseas, including a stint in Sri Lanka, where he brought relief to survivors of the 2004 tsunamis as a member of Canada's Disaster Assistance Response Team.
One soldier recalled time spent with the sergeant in Sri Lanka. "He was a very quiet man," said the soldier, who didn't want his name used. "He liked to keep to himself."
But in a tense situation, while they were in territory held by Tamil separatist rebels, and when a little levity was needed, Sgt. Stachnik was the first to crack a joke, the soldier recalled.
"You're out there, you're unarmed and guys get a little bit worried," the soldier said. "He would try to lighten the mood."
On more than one occasion, he also displayed ingenuity and a knack for solving problems, the soldier said. He remembered how Sgt. Stachnik managed to free a truck stuck in mud when time was of the essence for the Canadian convoy trying to reach communities battered by the tsunamis.
Sgt. Stachnik used the truck's motorized loading arm to put the vehicle's cargo -- a machine used to purify water -- onto the muddy road. He then pushed the arm on the load to move the vehicle out of the mud.
"He was definitely a handyman," the soldier said.
Sgt. Stachnik was based at Petawawa but lived in Chalk River, a town north of the military base. His friend from Sri Lanka said he liked living in the country.
One of his neighbours remembered how Sgt. Stachnik was often milling about his garage, working on a truck, lawn mower or motorcycle, and that he enjoyed riding his Harley-Davidson.
He was "the nicest guy I've ever met," said Doug Donnelly. "As soon as I would call him here, he would be coming over and having a beer."
Mr. Donnelly was still in shock yesterday about Sgt. Stachnik's death. "I can't believe that."
Deadly mission
The five deaths this weekend are the most sustained by Canada in a 24-hour period since troops first arrived in Afghanistan in early 2002. Since then, 33 Canadians -- one diplomat and 32 soldiers -- have died, 25 of them since Canadians moved into southern Afghanistan in force early this year.