Altair said:
Simplest solution to this is to pass legislation that gives the spouse of the prime minister a role and duties, thus coming with a office and staff if she or he should need them.
If not, the party picks up the bill. Our neibours to the south have a standard and this is never brought up because they know what to expect of the first lady, nomatter which party wins.
In Canada it's open to interpretation and thus open to criticism
Simplest solution is for her to, oh, go thru life realizing she isn't "the First Lady" and be thankful for how easy her life actually is with the staff she has. We've enough 'entitled to tax payers money' types in Canada as it is.
From a piece on FB that is off the BC Canada Politics fb page, that has been making the rounds...
From Meagan Heather Ward of Naicam, Saskatchewan, to Sophie Trudeau:
“Dear Mrs. Trudeau,
Let me introduce myself. I’m Meagan Ward – a 31 year old wife and mother to five incredible children, ages 13, 10, 9, 7 and 5.
Majority of people would say I’m a single mother as my husband works away for extended periods of time. Sadly, he is gone more than he is home.
Our kids are actively involved in extracurricular activities that requires, not only funds to participate in these sports, but my time driving them to and from activities multiple times a week. Two of our sons have been diagnosed with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. They are wonderful, great boys but parenting them requires a different approach than your average parenting and an immense amount of patience, structure and routine.
We live on a farm with several types of animals that require me to do daily chores ( in rain or shine, -40 or +40 temperatures), along with a very large yard that requires intensive upkeep, snow to plow in the winter, grass to cut in the summer and a large garden to work, which is absolutely necessary with feeding a family of seven.
I am also employed full time as a CEO for an agency that provides residential and vocational supports to adults with intellectual disabilities. My position requires me to travel, educate surrounding communities, deliver educational presentations, crisis management, HR issues, financial budget planning, continually upgrading my education…just to name a few duties. I do love my job but it can be very taxing and it is an “around-the-clock” job. Emergency calls can happen in the middle of the night, major decisions may need to be made while I’m in the middle of cooking my children supper or while I’m cleaning the house. Truly, there are no days off as I’m on call 24/7.
Even with the busyness of life, I still make it a priority to sit down and read with my children, teach them to cook and bake, have dance parties in the living room, make fun crafts together, listen attentively to their stories, take them on fun trips, play board games, take them to church and always tuck them into bed at night.
I am writing all this to you because you can imagine my disgust when I read your statement, "I need help. I need a team to help me..." You explained that you were overwhelmed and required more help around the house, with your children – there was even a quote from you stating “I need a break!” Now that you have read what an average Canadian mother does, because it’s certainly not just me that works around the clock, have multiple children with numerous commitments and responsibilities, how I feel that your statement was a slap-in-the-face. Frankly I think its hypocrisy. The first thing your husband did when elected was take away benefits from families who he deemed too rich. Cut Universal Child Care Benefits that helped Canadians pay for babysitters, slash fitness, art & music tax credits but now we should pay for additional staff for YOUR FAMILY? What is most disgusting is how terribly out of touch you can be with the realities that working women in Canada face today. Canadian women, on a daily basis, struggle with the costs of childcare and activities that are increasingly creating hardship for Canadian families. I’m talking about working women that struggle to find work-life balance. I’m talking about women who run themselves into the ground with ZERO help. And let’s be honest,
you have no official duties. It’s YOUR choice to attend events and guest speak at charities.
In actuality your job is to stay at home with your children and call your driver when you need to go somewhere, eat what your chef has prepared you and your family and make sure you don’t get in the way of your cleaning staff. Rude? Yes. But your warped sense of what “overwhelmed” and “needing a break” is, actually calls for something much more heinous, but I’m trying to be polite.
I would hope that you at least have the decency to make a public apology for your unbelievably selfish statement – not that it will help you to gain what little respect we have for you and your husband – but at least this will make you look a little less like a pompous jack ass.
Sincerely,
The mother who is PROUD to be working hard for her family”
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I'd summarize that piece "
How about having a nice cup of get the fuck over yourself".