It's probably of little consolation, but in my 20+ years working in the civilian world, things aren't that much different on the 'other side of the fence'. For many it seems, just because they have a pulse, they feel justified in their sense of entitlement. As you mentioned, work ethic and attention to detail seem to be less important then personal gratification. People seem to think that showing up for work is all thats really needed to qualify for that next pay raise or promotion. It has frustrated the he!! out of me on more than one occasion.
. To make matters worse, I have often seen sweet-talking, back-stabbing, kissing a@@ and towing-the-line being rewarded more than hard work, skill, dedication and quality. :rage: Getting something for nothing and 'sticking-it-to-the-man' seem to be viewed as desireable traits these days.
I'll probably get flak on this one... here's my :2c: for what its worth. I think a lot has to do with the Baby Boomers. Many of that generation started off with very little, for instance my parents were both born into homes that lacked electricity and running water. The standard of living rose dramaticly for the Boomers. I would say there are very few people in this country today who lack those sort of basic amenities. I'm not saying they didn't work hard, but they received and continue to receive a quality of life disproportionate to the effort put in. Generations to come will have to bear the artificial economy that they created and was never really sustainable.
The problem is, the children of Boomers, (like myself), really had it very easy. Regardless of skill, or work ethic, subsequent generations expect that same quality of life, and the reality is, it has been created with borrowed money, and is slowly slipping away.
I always try to remember some things my mother told me (rest her soul :yellow
"Don't measure yourself with someone else's yardstick" and "Wealth without work is a sin".