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Elecgitarguy,
I agree with most of the other posts. As others have said, family is important. Although they disagree are and are sometimes insulting in their criticism, I suggest you just tell them they are entitled to their opinion and that you insist that they respect yours. Support is nice, but respect is more important. Although it is hard to not get emotional, just remain calm with your family. They are likely scared, especially your brother. Try to remain dispassionate in your convictions, but respect their fears and feelings. Definitely do not walk away from them.
As a previous poster has said, it is very important that you continue to maintain the strength of your convictions. There will be times when your passion for this calling will flag in strength. It may be during training, or it may be later on when you see some decision being made that you think is stupid. The were definitely be a time when the flame will ebb and you will want to quit. The lack of support from your family will sap your strength too. Keep the faith, and always go back to the deep feeling that you now have for your calling. You have character - so I expect this will not be an issue for you.
If you wish to read a fantastic novel that deals with these conflicts and emotions, I suggest "Once an Eagle" by Anton Myer. Although it is about an American soldier and during an earlier time, the conflicts that the protagonist has with his wife over his decision to remain in the army are worth reading about for perspectives.
Good luck, and we are all glad you are joining us.
BB
PS When you are away, phone your mother - A LOT.
I agree with most of the other posts. As others have said, family is important. Although they disagree are and are sometimes insulting in their criticism, I suggest you just tell them they are entitled to their opinion and that you insist that they respect yours. Support is nice, but respect is more important. Although it is hard to not get emotional, just remain calm with your family. They are likely scared, especially your brother. Try to remain dispassionate in your convictions, but respect their fears and feelings. Definitely do not walk away from them.
As a previous poster has said, it is very important that you continue to maintain the strength of your convictions. There will be times when your passion for this calling will flag in strength. It may be during training, or it may be later on when you see some decision being made that you think is stupid. The were definitely be a time when the flame will ebb and you will want to quit. The lack of support from your family will sap your strength too. Keep the faith, and always go back to the deep feeling that you now have for your calling. You have character - so I expect this will not be an issue for you.
If you wish to read a fantastic novel that deals with these conflicts and emotions, I suggest "Once an Eagle" by Anton Myer. Although it is about an American soldier and during an earlier time, the conflicts that the protagonist has with his wife over his decision to remain in the army are worth reading about for perspectives.
Good luck, and we are all glad you are joining us.
BB
PS When you are away, phone your mother - A LOT.