ArmyVern said:
I'll eat my own ******* shoes if one CO comes on here and posts that he'd grant me 2 weeks compassionate to have my child and wouldn't make me go through the MATA/PATA process.
I'll respond to this first because it is an important point and if there is something inherently sexist about what our unit is doing I would like to discover that and raise the issue to see how to solve it.
Now, I don't understand anything about childbirth, and because I'm in an infantry unit in 4 years I have literally had one female subordinate (direct subordinate I mean) and she was coming back off MATA/PATA so this never came up. But, I am actually 100% sure that if a female in our Battalion said to their CoC "Sir, this MATA/PATA stuff is a dogs breakfast, I'd really like to take advantage of the *Battalion Leave Plan for Parents* and come back to work 2 weeks after the birth of my child" they would most definitely be granted the exact same benefit. If there isn't some kind of weird medical administrative thing that would roadblock this, and its just a matter of us not doing the MATA/PATA paperwork and letting you stay home for 2 weeks, I 100% guarantee we would do it.
And if we couldn't, I promise I would raise the point that "Sir, we do this for every man in the Battalion. If we can't do it for the women, we need to figure something else out." But, like I said, I have not experienced, nor has anyone that I know of, having a female member request the program we offer.
*Fictitious name*
Bzzliteyr said:
Two PT sessions a day. The infantry don't have that much to do.
Of course, I knew my post would be followed by the standard gripes about the infantry having nothing to do but PT.
I'm not sure how letting someone do their paperwork in PT kit from 1000-1200, so they have more time to get a second PT session in while still accomplishing their tasks, is in anyway indicative of having nothing to do. Yes, we value that person's dedication to physical fitness and support them by not having them waste time changing and showering twice a day (just to please a few close-minded people), to enable them to accomplish more PT while still being able to do their job. Whoop-di-diddly-do.
If the grass is so green on this side, why don't you cross the fence and see how much work we have to do?
Lumber said:
I haven't checked yet, and maybe Mario you could with your super human search skills, but I wonder how many of the people in this thread who don't see it as such a big deal to give lots of leave (and other relaxations) counter to regulations are the same ones who in the PT thread defend strongly that everyone should be doing an hour of PT a day because it's in the CDS's Guidance to COs.
I make a big deal about everyone doing PT because it stops our force from being embarrassingly overweight and ineffective. I'd like to think we wouldn't need the CDS to have to tell us to do an hour of PT a day because we've got leaders that already ensuring their troops are fit to fight. Perhaps you should use some of those "management" skills you are preaching about if the CDS's guidance is causing you heartache trying to find the time for your subordinates.