Pte. Pearce said:
Hey man I'm 17, i am going through a lot of the same stuff, i had the nasty rumors and such, best way to fight it, so I found is to simply keep your mouth shut and focus on school or your friends, I joined the Primary Reserves in May of 2010, my birth day is March, that's was how long it took me. the best way in, will be through the Reserves, once your in, your in, just finish your high school and things will work out, plus you think its bad for you with rumors, I disclose no sympathy as not only did i have the same problems, my first kid will be born here in Sept. Do as i have done, and Learn from what they are saying, Don't go having a kid, But your schooling done. It will be the best thing you ever do for you and your future kids. you can bank on that.