To add to the discussion, I would argue that even if the relationship was no longer sexual when she was working directly for Vance in Toronto (as he alleges and she disputes), it still would have been highly inappropriate. You do not ever have a command relationship with an intimate connection. (How could you ever be impartial?)
I knew this back in the 80s at charm school; it is not a new concept. Even if Vance is telling the truth (for the record, I find her more credible), he still engaged in egregiously inappropriate conduct, especially for the officer supposed to epitomize military values.
I have peers who are utterly gutted by these revelations. And even with my profound cynicism, I am deeply disappointed that so many seem to have been aware of this relationship and turned a blind eye.
I knew this back in the 80s at charm school; it is not a new concept. Even if Vance is telling the truth (for the record, I find her more credible), he still engaged in egregiously inappropriate conduct, especially for the officer supposed to epitomize military values.
I have peers who are utterly gutted by these revelations. And even with my profound cynicism, I am deeply disappointed that so many seem to have been aware of this relationship and turned a blind eye.