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I remember when my ex went away to Basic Training and I moved away to go to College. It was hard, I'm not going to lie. I missed that boy more than anything in the world. There were times I wished he would come home, but I NEVER told him that. He missed me and sure we had some tear filled phone calls. But, I was supportive. I knew he had to do his training so he could have the career he wanted. We got through BMQ and got a few days together before he was shipped off to Borden for who knows how long. Again, very hard. I know how it feels to be the girlfriend who just wants her man home. But, I tried my best to just make sure he knew I cared for him, and supported him as best I could. At times I hated the fact he had joined because it had taken him so far away, but I would never have told him that because I wanted him to have the career HE wanted. Just as how he never tried to get me to quit school and follow him to Borden. We BOTH had to do what we thought was best for ourselves, before there could be a WE.
I know from experience doing what was best for ME, was the best decision I ever made. We have since split and are each happy in our separate lives because we both did what was best for ourselves at the time. Sure a relationship is about compromise, but you have to know where to draw the line. You cannot compromise who you are, as it just isn't fair to yourself or her.
Just my opinion, of course.
I know from experience doing what was best for ME, was the best decision I ever made. We have since split and are each happy in our separate lives because we both did what was best for ourselves at the time. Sure a relationship is about compromise, but you have to know where to draw the line. You cannot compromise who you are, as it just isn't fair to yourself or her.
Just my opinion, of course.