Esquimalt is a good area with an undeserved reputation. I lived in the Westshore twice, Saanich, and Esquimalt twice, including presently. It is an excellent hub to all points of the city, close to work, and has many nice parks, off leash areas for the dog, beach access, including many private little coves not well known. What it lacks is shopping and business options. We travel to the Westshore for most of our needs there. The taxes are lower than average here, and the price of real estate is a tic lower as well, due mostly to the negative perceptions the community can not seem to shake. VGH is a 10 minutes or so drive, Vic Jubilee is around 15. For your wife, you are not looking at huge commute time in general. Quality of life to me was more important. 10 minutes by bike from my front door to my desk was a huge selling point. Since moving back here, our second vehicle seldom gets used.