dapaterson said:
Who does IR affect? Primarily senior personnel. As a proportion of pers at different ranks, you're most likley to be on IR if you're a CWO/CPO1, followed by GOFO or MWO/CPO2. In raw numbers, the ranks with the most pers on IR are Sgt/PO2, WO/PO1 and Maj/LCdr.
While this statement is likely true, I find myself in the same situation as Dexen. I am currently on my QL3s, and I start my 2nd semester in September. I am in Halifax, and my wife and 1 year old son are near Petawawa, on the Quebec side. I have been told by my PO that I can write a memo to have my posting status changed to an advanced posting status to move my family before my course is done, but standard procedure is to keep the member "Restricted Posted" until after the QL3 phase is complete. I am an OS, making the bare minimum, and I am realizing that housing in Halifax is more expensive than what I pay back home. I know that if they were here, the costs of living might be a little easier of a pill to swallow, but I find myself a little dazed at having to figure out how to keep food on the table at home, diapers on the boy-o, and whether I should be paying more than my current rent payment for full-rations, or more than my car payment for half-rations. It's likely that I will end up becoming the poster boy for KD and Mr. Noodles, because, with the wife out of work, and unable to find anything back home for work, I am the ONLY source of income.
Yeah, from what I've gained here, people do abuse the system. And I know that, no matter how much I whine, cry, stomp, kick, or complain, this is not going to be reversed or changed. So what happens now? Well, it's a good thing my wife has been saving whatever she can, and used the savings to get my flight home for 2 weeks leave in August, or I wouldn't get to see my son for more than 2 weeks this year. Flights to Ottawa are expensive, especially when you don't have any disposable income, and LTA is only available once a year.
I know some may rip on this post, and tell me to "suck it up" or "If I don't like it, I can leave", and those are valid comments, from their point of view. The reality is, if I do VR, I have nothing career-wise to go back to. Some join the CF as a first choice, some because they pay for the education, and others join because life has chewed them up, and spit them out, and have nowhere else to go. I am one of those who has tried everything and came to the CF as a last resort, just to have some form of job security. I did not join for the money, and I did not join for the benefits. I joined to serve my country, and to do something worthwile with myself. Plain and simple.
Yeah, IR is getting cut back. And if rations in Halifax are getting boosted up to $900/month, like what was posted earlier, well forget it. I can eat Mr. Noodles until I look like them. I don't care. I'll still be here.
I don't like being on IR. I wish I COULD have my family with me. I would rather be living in some shitbox house with my wife and son, and have to pay for my food and housing, then to have to live away from them for over 19 months, paying for some other shitbox house I only see for about a month of the year (along with the costs of running said shitbox house), and groceries for both residences, and a car that I don't get to drive unless I'm home.
I'll do what I have to do, in order to do the job I signed up for, because, other than my family, it's all I have left.