elsalado said:Maybe I'm overthinking this, but I've seen so many posts about divorces, air forces guys being on their third wives, wives/ husbands being unable to put up with the lifestyle and general resentment.
Many Army Guys and Navy Guys, and a lot of civilians with "stable" lives, have had more than one wife as well. Reasons for that vary.
elsalado said:Of course I've also seen posts from people with great family lives too. I've just seen so many horror stories that it has me thinking about it.
Everyone's experiences differ, and there is no way to predict how yours will turn out, regardless of which route you choose.
Join or don't join. There are benefits and sacrifices either way.
For me, the former have far outweighed the latter and I have no regrets for the choice that I made.