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Hello All,
I apolagize if this is in the wrong section.
Ok so first I'll explain the situation.
My fiance is currently half done week 9. He's gotten into a bit of trouble in the past. Nothing major to warrent a serious incident or anything. Mostly having his boots a little less polished then they would like and a few other smaller things. The result has been 4 counsellings. Now today, he was very sick and had to go to the MIR, (they go to farnham in the morning, they stayed on base for monday and tuesday). The doctor gave him a days bedrest because he was throwing up and had dizzy spells. Unfortunately, the staff were not sympthetic and were quite angry with him and threatened him with another counselling, one went so far as to say he didn't want him on the platoon anymore. This has made my boyfriend quite upset as he feels he is trying his best.
Now, I have followed this forum for almost 2 years, mostly reading up on experiences and advice for my own journey in cadpad. I have found the mods as well as alot of posters to be quite helpful and knowledable.
What I was wondering, was if anyone has gone through a bit of a harder time and had some advice. Or anyone who has been an instructor has any advice or words of encouragement I can pass onto him to help keep his head up. I tried as best as I could, but I'm at a loss as to what to say.
Any help would be appreciated, I hate hearing him so upset.
Thank you,
A.
ps. If there are any spelling/gramatical errors, or if anything is unclear, please tell him and I will be happy to change it.
I am sure the staff are doing what they think is apporiate, please dont think I'm attacking staff or anything.
I apolagize if this is in the wrong section.
Ok so first I'll explain the situation.
My fiance is currently half done week 9. He's gotten into a bit of trouble in the past. Nothing major to warrent a serious incident or anything. Mostly having his boots a little less polished then they would like and a few other smaller things. The result has been 4 counsellings. Now today, he was very sick and had to go to the MIR, (they go to farnham in the morning, they stayed on base for monday and tuesday). The doctor gave him a days bedrest because he was throwing up and had dizzy spells. Unfortunately, the staff were not sympthetic and were quite angry with him and threatened him with another counselling, one went so far as to say he didn't want him on the platoon anymore. This has made my boyfriend quite upset as he feels he is trying his best.
Now, I have followed this forum for almost 2 years, mostly reading up on experiences and advice for my own journey in cadpad. I have found the mods as well as alot of posters to be quite helpful and knowledable.
What I was wondering, was if anyone has gone through a bit of a harder time and had some advice. Or anyone who has been an instructor has any advice or words of encouragement I can pass onto him to help keep his head up. I tried as best as I could, but I'm at a loss as to what to say.
Any help would be appreciated, I hate hearing him so upset.
Thank you,
A.
ps. If there are any spelling/gramatical errors, or if anything is unclear, please tell him and I will be happy to change it.
I am sure the staff are doing what they think is apporiate, please dont think I'm attacking staff or anything.