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I looked all over and I am hoping someone might have some insight as how to make this seemingly impossible task work.
Basically, the soldier has 4 years of oblig. service before they can even think about getting out, but after that, if they serve another 8 years, they will have hit the 20 year mark and be entitled to a pension (vested). They would be a fool to get out before that.
The civilian has a job here in the summers where the two of them spend time together, and then are apart through the winter months aside from vacations, the occasional weekend and whenever else they can scrounge up enough money to see each other. They have a very strong relationship, aside from one thing. Neither of them can think of a way to be able to be together on a regular basis, yet they keep holding on.... to what?!?
I was hoping there might be someone out there who has experienced the same situation, if they should just call it off, or if there are other options that they are missing...
Basically, the soldier has 4 years of oblig. service before they can even think about getting out, but after that, if they serve another 8 years, they will have hit the 20 year mark and be entitled to a pension (vested). They would be a fool to get out before that.
The civilian has a job here in the summers where the two of them spend time together, and then are apart through the winter months aside from vacations, the occasional weekend and whenever else they can scrounge up enough money to see each other. They have a very strong relationship, aside from one thing. Neither of them can think of a way to be able to be together on a regular basis, yet they keep holding on.... to what?!?
I was hoping there might be someone out there who has experienced the same situation, if they should just call it off, or if there are other options that they are missing...